currently in church, we are undergoing a churchwide bible study series called Making Marriage Work.
totally irrelevant to us youngsters. but still, it's pretty interesting.
(aiyo, that jay chou aiyo song is playing.)
where was i? oh, i learnt many interesting things too, including the uses of sex (not biologically). hahaha. like it was God's will, way before Adam and Eve had eaten that apple, for married couples to enjoy sex.
too much info for you? nah. look at it in a biblogical way.
stuff like when married, a couple has to "leave" their parents and be joined to their spouses. check genesis 2:24. around there. haha.
and yesterday, a couple of thousand married couples renewed their marriage vows. today, too, will this renewing be going on in service.
so where does the emotional map come in?
well in one of the lessons pastor talked about communication, and this emotional map can be used to write a letter to your other half so as to improve communication between spouses.
writing one to yourself is another way to make sure you don't become "emotionally shut down".
like i said in the previous post, obviously i am not emotionally shut down (and somebody is super aware of that huh, mr aiyo?) but still i wanted to try writing a letter. and you have to be totally honest to yourself.
it's my way of telling you guys how i have been feeling lately too. not exactly a bad thing, but it may not be a good thing anyway.
so to non-CHC peeps who think i need help, nah, chill! just being honest and frank with myself. you wanna check out that marriage series? sure. pop me an (why is it AN, not A, sms?) sms or gimme a nudge in msn. you could try the emotional map yourself.
to CHC buddies, you have give it a try. be totally honest with yourself. you'll feel a lot better. for the first night i slept with out funny dreams.
ever since that darn prelims started i had dreams every night. they aren't scary or nice, just weird.
people pop out in unexpected places. i don't remember any dream, but i know they were all weird.
not those spiritual attacks kind either, though. i used to have these dreams, not not continuously for 2 weeks!
anyway, do you think i have too many youtube vids in my blog?
answer that question in my tagboard, i'm off to making a skin.
