Tuesday, December 13, 2005

it has been long, like months ago.

yet it still affects me unintentionally.

i don't want to think about it. but when i watch shows that reminds me of what happened, i won't be able to stop thinking of it.

i don't like it. nope. who would.

honestly you won't expect me to forget something like that right?

okay enough of being emotional. i am super bored right now, due to my bloody new phone shutting down whenever i want to use it. sorry if you called and got cut off. my phone will just shut down. so i turned it off. and if you smsed me i didn't reply or if i smsed you and you replied but i didn't i am so so sorry.

since i'm bored, i'm going to type something.

I AM NOT PIN-POINTING ANYONE WITH WHATEVER I AM GOING TO SAY. or type, actually.

guys, this is for you. things to do and NOT to do when you wanna jio your desired girl.

1. please do not, do not, do not send "sweet" good night smses. or smses like...like...i don't know. just don't send those STUPID sweet smses.

2. don't offer to send her home. you'll scare the poor thing.

3. don't buy stuff for her - yet. buy stuff for her when you're successfully together. cos if you buy stuff for her and she rejects you in the end its you who lose out. haha.

4. do chat online or sms. talk about useful stuff like her favourite things. or your favourite things. stuff like that. USEFUL stuff. don't go online, say a hi to her.

5. however, do NOT go online, say a HI, and don't say anything else after that.

that's all i can think of. ok. now for the DOs and DON'Ts with your girlfriend

1. when your girlfriend says "where do you wanna go today?" please make a decision. don't, DO NOT say i don't know. make a decision!!!!!!

2. when she say I PAY, let her pay. no need to explain.

3. please, please, never ever EVER asks her whether she is jealous or even mention the J word. cos even if she is, you're supposed to know, but not say it out and still be able to fix her J problem. and if she is not BUT you keep asking, it is annoying isn't it? (this one is one of the most annoying probs i had with my last guy. argh!!! sickening.)

4. don't try to control her. you get 2 results out of that : she rebels against you(meaning breakup) or she breaks down. then break up with you.

5. don't force her to do anything. sometimes it seems as though you are not, you're just doing it for her own good. but in truth you are forcing her to do something she doesn't want to. just exlain why you're doing it. if she doesn't want to accept your help then forget it!

there. something for me to do wen i am bored.

silly min.